Hi @nevj , looks like I need to explain a bit more about it.
There are couple computers in our home network.
I have 3 kids, they have i3 8100 based computers 8GB RAM, integrated graphics, running Debian 12 Cinnamon.
My oldest son has a laptop too, Aspire A314, it runs Debian 11 MATE (it is a weak laptop celeron N4000 or something similar, 4GB RAM).
My wife has her laptop, Thinkpad L380, i5 8250u 16GB with integrated graphics, runs on Debian 12 Cinnamon.
I have my laptop, Dell G3, i5 8300h 16GB RAM, with integrated but has nVidia 1050 as a secondary graphics, this runs Debian 12 KDE.
There’s the home server, the Odroid HC4, it runs Debian 11 it’s headless without any GUI, has a Samsung made ARM CPU (Exynos maybe) and 4GB RAM.
There’s the RPi3B+ in the living room.
I have a backup server, it’s a i5 4500T, 8GB RAM, runs Debian 11 without GUI (it’s headless too, just switches on every day at 3:00 AM, rsyncs data from the home server).
And of course my desktop, which is the most powerful computer in the family:
i7 8700, 16GB RAM, runs Debian 12 KDE.
This has 2 monitors attached.
So these are the gadgets 
The laptops are kind of personal.
The kids use their own machines for whatever they need it for. School related things, but yes, there are games too. Especially during the covid lockdown was important to have all their own.
These computers have 4 users, an admin (I am that
), and all 3 kids could login to any of those, wait some minutes until Seafile client synchronizes their data there, and can do whatever could do on the other machine.
This is just for "just in case’, if a kids own computer would break, could go on with his work(?) on the other one. A theoretical possibility, not really used.
My wife used to do her homeoffice mainly on her laptop. But very often she needs my dual monitor setup, because she can have there multiple spreadsheets open, and have a better overview at the same time.
All kids also have theoretical possibility to login on the desktop. My oldest son sometimes (rarely) really logs in, for the benefit of 2 monitors, and more computational power.
So I have 5 users on that desktop, my family mebers, including me. Only I am deep diving Linux, the others are “just” users, not really interested in how things work.
I want to keep this ecosystem up and running so that they can do their jobs anytime, and also to my own pleisure.
Wayland+KDE+nVidia is kind of broken, and that affected the functionality in the wrong way.
I was not able to solve the problem just editing config files, so I changed my mind, sold the nVidia, and bought the Radeon for my desktop.
Does this make it more clear?